LLD101 Forum Index LLD101
Low Level Dueling in 1.12
 
 FAQFAQ   SearchSearch   MemberlistMemberlist   UsergroupsUsergroups   RegisterRegister 
 ProfileProfile   Log in to check your private messagesLog in to check your private messages   Log inLog in 

The time now is Thu Mar 28, 2024 3:58 am
All times are UTC - 8
 Forum index » Off-Topic Section » Off-Topic Discussion
A serious question about lost love.
Post new topic   Reply to topic View previous topic :: View next topic
Page 2 of 2 [24 Posts]   Goto page: Previous 1, 2
Author Message
lld_newb


Joined: 19 Mar 2006
Posts: 2423
BNet Acct/Realm: Deserves a spam section.
Offline
70.13 Silvarrr

PostPosted: Sun May 25, 2008 6:43 am    Post subject:  

yea, i would just go kill your self now.
BBQ. LOL. INTERNET. O RLY? YA RLY. NO WAI! YA WAI! R U SHUR? SHUR IM SHUR! KENT B! STFU! WTF?!? GTFO! IMHO...

that took a while

_________________

Back to top
View user's profile Send private message Visit poster's website AIM Address 
Mimes


Joined: 24 Jan 2007
Posts: 1267
BNet Acct/Realm: e/sc/l Mimes., Mimes-LLD, Justin27 and 1338
Offline
34.96 Silvarrr

PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2008 1:31 pm    Post subject:  

Well if you see yourself as just a punk with no future, its no wonder you never made any effort. Low self esteem is not a good thing to have my friend Wink

I personally would feel like a complete ass for breaking up a marriage. I know it happens in a lot of movies, but those are just that....movies. The only thing you can do now is congratulate them and stay in touch.

As someone said, a large amount of marriages don't last for more then a couple years. You may still get another chance. If it does eventually come along, your going to want to jump on the opportunity.

_________________

1,000th post on 12/12/07
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message 
Wank


Joined: 01 Nov 2005
Posts: 3329
BNet Acct/Realm: Imp StormsRaider
Offline
57.98 Silvarrr

PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2008 5:50 pm    Post subject:  

Quote:
I personally would feel like a complete ass for breaking up a marriage. I know it happens in a lot of movies, but those are just that....movies. The only thing you can do now is congratulate them and stay in touch.

Nope. If she was really meant to be with the guy shes getting married to, just saying something would have no affect on that. It would have one if she wasn't though.

Quote:
As someone said, a large amount of marriages don't last for more then a couple years. You may still get another chance. If it does eventually come along, your going to want to jump on the opportunity.

Yea, after shes knocked up with 4 kids! Sounds like fun.

_________________

Equipped Lvl 30's:
Froggy-Leap Attacker, Vidala- Bow, Starly-Wind, Haunter-Bonenec, Dragonair-Fissure, Vileplume-Psn Jav, Clefairy- Wc

http://img104.imagevenue.com/loc1100/th_30982_ImpAvatar_122_1100lo.jpg(didnt want to lose that link Surprised
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message AIM Address Yahoo Messenger 
Roy
My level 18s > yours


Joined: 14 Oct 2005
Posts: 5750
Offline
223.30 Silvarrr

PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2008 9:02 pm    Post subject:  

Dan, I don't think anyone here could adequately answer your question, but Waramp and Weaj probably have the most rational choice.

These things do have a way of working out in the end.

_________________
breakbeatz2 wrote:
2-15 isnt possible on level 18 jewels. He must mean 2 x 15 maxers


yarly
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message 
Endless

Joined: 18 May 2007
Posts: 32
Offline
4.56 Silvarrr

PostPosted: Fri May 30, 2008 12:40 am    Post subject:  

I "had" the same situation. I never did anything cause I fell apart from her. So, the best thing you can do is. Tell her how you feel or live in regret of not saying what you need to say to her and be apparently like me Smile.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message 
Dan The Man


Joined: 05 Apr 2008
Posts: 55
Offline
18.68 Silvarrr

PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 1:57 am    Post subject:  

An update on the situation. I've been feeling out of it for sometime now since what happened to my car and my thoughts on what to do with my life so I decided to go out on July 4th.

I arrived at the bar and had a few drinks with friends and cousins and we chilled. Later we went outside for a smoke. My cousin had a pack of cigars and offered me one. I usually don't smoke but I figured fuck it, its July 4th weekend and I'm in a shitty mood anyways. So I was blazin' a cigar, it was quite refreshing, strawberry flavored.

So I'm havin' a great time just around my people, just chillin' and takin' in the atmosphere. Halfway through with my smoke and I turn my head to the right and I see her with her fiance. Its been 2 years since I've seen her and at first I wasn't 100% sure if it was her. So I focused in more and saw her face, we stared for a bit but I had to look away.

That brought in some old hurtin' feelings I had for her. I just continued blazin'. Right when that happened I see one of my gal pals walking in front of me, so I poked her waist, greeted her and gave her a hug. She took out a smoke and leeched my light. Moments later, I decided to walk over to her fiance and her for a greeting and congratulations on the engagement.

This was the biggest bombshell that happened next when I greeted him with a hand shake. After I shook his hand and introduce myself to him, he says, "Gail says she only loves me when shes drunk." Shocked In my head I was like, "ah, why are you telling me this and why on Earth is she with you then?" At that point I was happy as hell that she doesn't love him but at the same time confused, like extremely confused as what to do next. So I just played it cool and stood there and finished my smoke. I was then pulled away by my buddy and we went back inside. I didn't see her the rest of the night.

I must be cursed or somethin'. Its like an opportunity for me but I don't want to just tell her what I feel and ask her why shes with him. But most likely I might have to stick with my guns and accept that she is getting married. Any thoughts is appreciated, thanks! Smile
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message 
OutlawHeaven
Bermanently Panned


Joined: 22 May 2005
Posts: 2274
BNet Acct/Realm: OutlawHeaven/OutlawHvn @USEast@Azeroth@AIM
Offline
12.23 Silvarrr

PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 1:42 pm    Post subject:  

That doesn't change anything. From personal experiance, chasing after women who are taken is not a lost cause, it's just not worth the effort.

Keep it in touch, pursue other women.

Someone else already explained a situation like this better than I have, so I'll just quote him.

Relentless wrote:
the only approach left is to pursue other girls without telling her, and that's dictated by two very different motives: (a) to make her like you by trying to invoke jealousy or (b) you genuinely want to pursue another girl because your situation is horrible and you're not getting the results you'd like.

(a) is a cheap way of trying to manipulate her into liking you. No matter how you look at it, you're still putting more effort into it than she is. "If I just do this, she'll finally like me." Your motivation is based on her because you still want her, and you don't really care about you. Forced option.

(b) is a way of saying "Okay, she's just not that into me. I'm going to cut my losses. I'll start to move on by pursuing other girls and hopefully get into another relationship (because that's what I want)." You're focused purely on you, not her. Natural option.

With that said, I was basically saying if you choose option A, you will mess up eventually because your mindset will be "I want to do X so Y will happen." You'll keep trying to force something into happening every time something bad happens. All of those forced actions will snowball into guaranteed failure. That's how it works.


Now for the big picture: As of right now, you have nothing. Sorry, but that's reality. Now combine what I've just explained even further, with the other posts and figure the rest out by making a decision and let everything unfold.

_________________

Back to top
View user's profile Send private message Send e-mail Visit poster's website 
xxx-baba-xxx

Joined: 12 Feb 2008
Posts: 31
Offline
0.00 Silvarrr

PostPosted: Mon Jul 14, 2008 5:08 pm    Post subject:  

get over her. you are young - there are a million girls just like her.

seriously not to be a jerk, but lots of people get hung up on a girl. after a while you realize theres lots of better ones.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message 
ZxFallenxZ

Joined: 01 Aug 2008
Posts: 10
Offline
0.00 Silvarrr

PostPosted: Tue Aug 19, 2008 7:58 pm    Post subject:  

True love is selfless. You should tell her how you feel, but also understand that this may complicate things in her emotional state. Understand that if you truely love this girl, you should care about her happiness over your own. I know this is easier said than done, trust me. But it is worth it to see her happy, whether it's with you or not.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message 
Display posts from previous:   Sort by:   
Page 2 of 2 [24 Posts]   Goto page: Previous 1, 2
Post new topic   Reply to topic View previous topic :: View next topic
 Forum index » Off-Topic Section » Off-Topic Discussion
Jump to:  

You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot vote in polls in this forum


Powered by phpBB © 2001, 2005 phpBB Group
[ Time: 0.0674s ][ Queries: 38 (0.0052s) ][ GZIP on - Debug on ]